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Budget, once again (Part III) Self-Employment


As soon as the jars were filled our budget drastically changed. What is the saying? Want to see God laugh, tell him your plans? Hubby received an offer that allows us to manifest a major lifestyle change. He will be self-employed, have greater flexibility and time with our family. So, how on earth does one budget with the variable income of self-employment?

After some research, the best way for us to budget a variable income is to set a realistic budget based on the known income and a reasonable expectation for the variable income. Then build in safe guards, re-evaluation periods and a plan for windfalls.

1. Safe Guards: Determine an amount we are comfortable using from our savings to maintain our budget for the first three months.

  • As checks come in, pay back savings first.
  • Keep reserves in the account to float future months.
  • Remember every day that his pay will be irregular. Don’t stress. Breathe and plan.

2. Re-evaluation Period: Check in at the end of the first, second, and third month.

  • Assess how realistic the budget has been and reallocate any money left over.
  • Discuss short term savings (upcoming expenses, desired purchases, etc.). Build these items into the budget and windfall plan.
  • After the first 3 months, switch to quarterly check-ins.

3. Windfalls: Any amount over the budget x 4 months should be distributed according to our “windfall plan”.

  • 50% to debt repayment (we took on low-interest debt for the home purchase and remodel).
  • 25% to the short term saving categories (vacation,snowblower,  furniture).
  • 25% to the cash jars for a bit of float.

This will be interesting to watch develop. I have a feeling the hardest part will be the psychological test of not knowing when the next check will come in, how much we will bring in a year, etc. That said, there is no great reward without risk. There is the real chance that our family will have more time together, more adventures and bring in the same amount (or more!) of money a year.

Talk back, are you self-employed or thinking about becoming? Do you budget? What is the hardest part of being self-employed? What do you wish someone had told you?

Budget, once again (Part I)


After yet another day of deliveries arriving at our house (USPS, UPS, and FedEx all with at least two packages).  I began to wonder, how do you decide when enough is enough?

We have a list of things we would like to buy.  For the house, our hobbies, our family, vacations, events, etc.  Who doesn’t?  Since we had reached our big financial goal, what was stopping us?

In my early 20s the hubby and I began life planning (see money manifestation board).  We dreamed and discussed how we wanted to live our lives (how many kids, how and where to raise them, where we want to travel etc.).  So we developed a budget.  A pretty serious budget.  We sent directly to savings one of our salaries (we make about the same amount).  Our budget wasn’t austere but it gave us a framework for determining what was important to us and using our money to achieve those things.  Essentially, it made it simple to know when to say no to spending. 

Three years ago, that budget meant that we had saved enough to enact our first huge lifestyle change.  We welcomed our first child, moved across country to a small mountain town, I began to work from home (still fulltime) and hubby left his secure, salaried employment to start his own company.

As if that wasn’t enough change, the next two years brought the arrival our last child, hubby was hired by another salaried employer, and we bought and remodeled our forever home.  Somewhere in the midst of this change, we stopped using a budget.

So back to the deliveries…

As the deliveries came in the door I felt frustration. Sure, we reached a big financial goal. What is more important is we are not yet where we want to be to make the next lifestyle changes.   There are only so many hours in a lifetime.  There are many interests we both have that we want to pursue.   These deliveries (inexpensive items but everything adds up) were taking away from the present we want to be living.  While we have the dream manifestation board, we had lost the tool that is essential for making those dreams reality.  And so, it is time to yet again create a budget.

Talk back, do you have a budget?  What are your feelings about living on a budget?  Do you think one can ever have enough money to not find a budget helpful?

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